Thursday, December 28, 2006

You're done now... right?

Danny is a little over two months old now. Still a little guy... only sporadically coming close to "sleeping through the night" and being on anywhere near a predictable schedule. Like all our babies, he gets cuter and cuter by the day... I'm enjoying his tinyness and at the same time, looking forward to the smiles and giggles that are still around the corner.

Many of our dear family and friends have noticed a wee bit of a trend in our lives over the last couple years and are beginning to express good-natured and loving anticipation... or concern. Eliana was three months old when we got pregnant with Michael. Michael was closer to four months old when we got pregnant with Daniel... So the big question is, "When are you going to have the next one? Are you going to wait a bit longer this time?" The "You're done now, right?" typically is only heard from those who haven't talked to us about this subject... usually strangers.
I come from a family with five children and I love and sincerely thank God for each one of my siblings. I am also thankful for parents that joyfully welcomed us into their hearts, even though the stories that surrounded many of our births were difficult, to say the least.

David has an older sister that we both love and adore, and his parents have vigilantly cared and provided for their training and upbringing in an admirable fashion.

All of that is to say that we have a good heritage of recognizing the value of children. I grieve for those of my friends and loved ones who desire children but have not yet been able to hold their own, many for different reasons. I pray for them regularly with an aching heart, but with confidence that God has a loving and good plan for their lives (Romans 8:28-29). I grieve even more for people who have been blessed with children but have never understood the value of the gifts that God gave them.

David and I, when dreaming about what our lives together, desired children, but we didn't imagine that we would have them so close together. However, after each of our children have been born so far, we have had peace and confidence in God's timing with a desire to trust Him as to when our next child will be conceived.

Our hands are full, but we are blessed, humbled, and thankful for each of these gifts from God (Psalms 127:3-5). We know that His timing is good... perfect, actually. We, in our human mindsets, could not have made a better plan. These children are not a heavy, burdensome obligation. They are wonderful, beautiful, awe-inspiring eternal souls, made in the image of a Perfect, Holy, Loving God. Our children are not perfect, but the God who first imagined and created them is! We have a tremendous responsibility to our children before God, but we are joyfully thankful that His grace is sufficient through the blood of Jesus Christ, and He will provide for all our needs (Phillipians 4:19-20).

We cannot presume to know when or if God will choose to give us another child... but we are confident in His Word, and so we know that any child that God gives us will be a blessing... one that we don't deserve but that He gives for His glory to be seen.

8 comments:

Laura said...

How much is a little bit longer? When Danial is five months old. You only have three children now and i am so glad you are not deciding to stop no matter what the others say,you were to person who told me you wanted a hundred children one day. I don't now want David thinks about a hunded kids though.

pan said...

Excellent post Christina. Brought tears to my eyes.

mrssharonlowery said...

if you have this much time on your hands to write such wonderful blogs you're definitely ready for another baby!

Lila said...

I can't wait and I will adore each and every one of them!

Carrie said...

Great post Christina!

Megan said...

I say you should keep on having as many adorable children as possible so I can enjoy them. The only problem I see is that you will have to change the address of this blog every year or so.

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